Eight-year-old Courtney* is the oldest of four girls in her family. As with most of our Youth Mentoring kids, Courtney and her three younger sisters are being raised by a single mother. Her parents divorced about two years ago and that was the beginning of Courtney’s challenges. As a result of her depression, anger, hurt and fear over the divorce, Courtney started down a road of overt defiance at home and at school, which caused her grades and peer relationships to dramatically shift in the wrong direction. She was failing most of her subjects and because of anger and attitude; her friends did not want anything to do with her. They tried getting help from a school counselor and outside agencies, but without success. Mom did not want to go down the medication road, so she was stuck without answers.
I had the opportunity of matching Courtney with a Christian mentor named Jill in early August of 2006. Sometimes you can tell right away that the relationship is special. Over time, my initial feelings were confirmed in the considerable changes that began to take place in Courtney. Jill’s purpose and plan was clear from the beginning; to lovingly care for her new friend during simple outings to the park, the beach, on bike rides, or anything that did not cost much money but did give them an opportunity to laugh, talk and get to know each other. Through the rapid development of this simple friendship, Courtney’s heart began to change. Her anger and fears at home and school began to subside. Her grades are now in the A and B range, yet they spent no time in tutoring. Her network of friends in her neighborhood and school is better than it has ever been. But they had not spent focused time discussing how to make friends. There is no better expression of what has taken place than the words from her mom. She hardly could contain herself as she told me of how Courtney and Jill are a perfect match. One day my little girl came to me and said; “I feel so alive now.” God is giving Courtney new life as Jill’s love and caring is being weekly poured into her.
Courtney’s Mom thanked me many times for this opportunity for her daughter. My heart is grateful to God for supporters like you who make this testimony possible. May each of us be keenly sensitive and radically obedient to the selfless giving to which he calls us. His blessings to you always.
For His Purpose,